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My Unplanned Journey to Motherhood

By Shilpi Sharma

My Unplanned Journey to Motherhood: From Glitz and Glamour to Realizing What Truly Matters

Rajasthan to Mumbai: A Single Girl's Rollercoaster Pursuit of Independence

Life in the bustling city of Mumbai can be a rollercoaster, especially for a single girl away from her family. Born and raised in Rajasthan, I ventured into the city for college, ready to conquer the world on my terms. Living in hostels, paying guest accommodations, and juggling college and jobs became the norm. I was determined to be independent, not relying on my well-known political and business family from Rajasthan. The path to success in Mumbai was paved with rejections, failed relationships, and a series of moves, but my determination fueled my journey.

Defying Legacy: A Rollercoaster Journey from Independence to Bollywood Stardom.

Driven by a desire to stand on my own two feet, I took up jobs to pay my bills, refusing to lean on the political and business legacy of my well-known family. It was a rollercoaster of emotions, filled with failed relationships and moments of triumph in my career. Rejections and successes shaped my journey, leading me to the glitzy world of Bollywood. From big advertisements to working as a leading actress opposite Sunny Deol and Arjun Rampal and well known south Indian actors & renowned directors like Madhur Bhandarkar, life seemed like a dream.

Glamour's Temptation: Navigating Attention, Success, and Relationship Crossroads.

Amidst the glamour and fame, I was a head-turner, the centre of attention at parties and events, with people chasing me for various reasons. I revelled in the attention, flying high when success came knocking and facing lows when relationships crumbled. Yet, in the midst of this whirlwind, I pushed aside the idea of marriage and family, dismissing potential suitors that my parents tirelessly sought.

Defying Norms: From Contentment in Success to the Unforeseen Yearning for Tradition.

I was content in my pursuit of success, ignoring the traditional expectations that society placed on a woman. Little did I know that the life I had always avoided – the life my parents spoke about, emphasizing the importance of marriage and children – would one day become my deepest desire.

Turning Tides: From Exhaustion to Craving the Simplicity of Love and Family.

The turning point hit me hard. Exhausted with the constant chase, failed relationships and fake friends and artificial life ,I yearned for peace, security, and a life that felt more real. It dawned on me that the very things I had run away from were now the elements I craved – a loving husband, a cozy home, and the laughter of children echoing through the house

Reckoning Choices: Rediscovering Womanhood Amidst Mumbai's Success Obsession.

As the realization set in, I couldn’t help but question the choices I had made. In a city like Mumbai, where success is often equated with career achievements, many women, like myself, lose sight of the true essence of womanhood. We prioritize career, relationships over stability, overlooking the value of a home and family until it’s almost too late.

Time's Unforgiving Path: Navigating the Yearning for Family in Later Decades.

In our thirties and forties, we find ourselves yearning for the warmth of a family, only to be faced with the harsh reality that time might not be on our side. The dream of a stable life, a loving partner, and the pitter-patter of little feet starts feeling like a distant mirage.

Hindsight Realizations: Navigating the Unseen Challenges of Female Fertility.

Looking back, I wish someone had sat me down and provided more aggressive guidance – not just the typical advice from friends and family but a deeper understanding of what happens to a woman’s body post-30. The significance of AMH levels, the implications of PCOD, the impact of our lifestyle on fertility – these are crucial aspects that often go unnoticed until it’s too late. The importance of the eggs we’re born with, and how they deplete with age, becomes a critical aspect of the journey toward motherhood.

Empowering Narratives: Inspiring Awareness and Support for Women's Well-Being.

My intent in sharing these aspects of my story is not to evoke pity but to inspire awareness. Every woman deserves the knowledge and support necessary to make informed decisions about her life and family. Today, I share my story not as a cautionary tale but as a call for awareness.. Medical guidance, coupled with emotional support, can pave the way for a more informed and prepared journey into the complexities of womanhood.

In my next blog, I will continue unravelling the layers of my story, shedding light on the unexpected challenges that awaited me after marriage. Stay tuned as we delve deeper into the realities that every woman should be aware of, weaving a narrative that resonates with the hearts of many.